Live Up To Your Own Agenda

Every person has their own opinion (agenda) about what you should do, the pace in which you should do it and how. They make it seem like you would offend them if don’t. When the opinion comes from someone you respect and honor, the knee-jerk response may be to follow their blueprint for your life. […]

Self Validation

Self Validation is the Pink Elephant Quiet as it is kept, self validation is the path to creating the freedom you desire. Daring to validate yourself is risky business. ‘You mean to tell me that you can honor yourself and your parts without bashing yourself?’ What kind of freak are you? You must be some […]

How to Make Up Your Mind

In the world of endless choices, it feels impossible to make up your mind. The game of what if this or what if that dances endlessly in your head. The main driver of the what if game is, what if I make the wrong decision? What if others don’t like my decision? As you know […]

Are you Feeling Lost and Alone?

It is NEVER quiet between your ears. You feel like you have the weight of the world on your shoulders, not being able to think in peace just adds to the feeling of burden, stress and achy shoulders. Frankly, you feel lost and alone. Everything feels like it has spiraled out of your control. You […]

My Friends Aren’t There for Me

When people fall away, let them. People will move out of your life or shift in your life, I say, it is ok to LET them. You want to declare, ‘my friends aren’t there for me.’ I get it, but… It isn’t personal. As the saying goes: everything happens for a reason, for a season […]

Failure Doesn’t Really Exist, Its Just Feedback

Whoever told you that failure exists told you a big fat lie. Failure doesn’t exist it’s just feedback on how to do something differently. Don’t believe the hype. You are not alone, I bought the t-shirt too. When I think about when I tried on rental roller skates for the first time, I was thrilled […]

Dreaded Networking Question

You are at a networking meeting or a social function and someone asks, ‘what do you do?’ The music in your head plays, ‘DOM DOM DOM.’ You grimace. Your stomach ties itself into a sailor’s knot. Time seems to have slowed down and now you have cotton mouth. It is difficult to exude confidence when […]

Self Betrayal

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The thing about self betrayal is from the outside looking in, no one would ever be the wiser. This is the sickening truth of abandoning yourself. It should have been the last straw with him. I should have chosen myself. But I didn’t. Again. My boyfriend and I at the time got into an argument. […]

Voice Power: Everyone Has a Voice

Everyone has a voice, therefore everyone has power: Voice Power Time passed before, I fully understood the statement above. I was taught to keep my head down, stay out of trouble, get good grades and then get a good job (eh hmm, and stick with this job until retirement). When you have an inquisitive nature, […]

Settling has Consequences

Life events can be so shocking, it makes you feel like settling for whatever hand you are dealt. It feels like there is no choice in the matter. But settling has consequences, big ones! Life comes at you hard and fast. These events change the fabric of who you thought you were. Talk about unsettling. […]