Give Yourself Permission to Succeed

LET YOURSELF BE GREAT Giving yourself permission to succeed takes courage beyond measure. The truth is, scrutiny, criticism, and self-doubt are paralyzing factors. WHO do you think you are? But the real question is: who would you become if you allowed yourself to succeed? You want more, but are afraid to say: you won’t let […]

Always Getting Ready to Live but Never Living

Getting ready and never arriving OR always getting ready to live but never living is like perpetually putting on makeup to go to a big party, putting on the dress then sitting on the bed and falling asleep. Over and over again aka the movie, Ground Hog’s Day. Similarly, you want to start a new […]

Live Up To Your Own Agenda

Every person has their own opinion (agenda) about what you should do, the pace in which you should do it and how. They make it seem like you would offend them if don’t. When the opinion comes from someone you respect and honor, the knee-jerk response may be to follow their blueprint for your life. […]

Failure Doesn’t Really Exist, Its Just Feedback

Whoever told you that failure exists told you a big fat lie. Failure doesn’t exist it’s just feedback on how to do something differently. Don’t believe the hype. You are not alone, I bought the t-shirt too. When I think about when I tried on rental roller skates for the first time, I was thrilled […]

Settling has Consequences

Life events can be so shocking, it makes you feel like settling for whatever hand you are dealt. It feels like there is no choice in the matter. But settling has consequences, big ones! Life comes at you hard and fast. These events change the fabric of who you thought you were. Talk about unsettling. […]

The First Step to Follow Your Heart

The first step in following your heart is being open and asking yourself questions. Pull out the big Q’s. The Needle Movers Ask yourself: What do I want? What is my legacy? What is the most fun thing I can do right now? What is my highest excitement? What can make the time go quicker […]

Decision Making

toddler Fonda

Have you ever wondered how some people make decision making look so easy? The person in the photo is toddler me. This person (me) was imaginative, creative, playful, sensitive and very loving. In the effort to prepare me for life, I was convinced by my father and my teachers that creativity wouldn’t get me very […]

Haters

In order to be the BOSS of your own life, you can’t afford to give any haters a platform on what you have built. Haters will attempt to bait you in conversation in any way that they can because they get to ‘get’ some of your spotlight. Be mindful of this, if you chose to […]

Validation

Outside Validation

If you need the attention, approval or validation from others in order to prove your greatness (or to feel worthy)…then you will always be disappointed. The bottom line is people are flaky and fleeting as they should be. They are here on the planet to seek their own destiny. The same as you. Outside approval […]

Mediocrity

Mediocrity

Mediocrity is a drug with lasting side effects. It is for regular people. Don’t be regular. Regular is boring. You won’t even realize that you are on the drug, mediocrity until you see that you don’t have the life that you want. It has a low vibration of the comfortable life. Push past the status […]